Am I in it for the right reasons?
Probably not, but that’s what I kept thinking to myself when I started telling people that yes, I’d be writing a live blog on the television show The Bachelor. But wait, why? That’s usually the follow-up. Easy–because I made a new year’s resolution that I would write more, almost as often as one would go to the gym. (Writing, after all, is an exercise.) Writing about hockey is fun and something I like doing, but a challenge would be to write about a topic that I would usually never even touch and really couldn’t care less about.
Enter Juan Pablo.
This is not my first time watching this ridiculous series. I made a promise to myself I wouldn’t admit that…here’s to transparency.
Here’s a quick story. Once upon a time last summer, during one of the hottest days of the year, the coolest room in my apartment just so happened to be the one that had the one TV with cable. Since this room served as a living room, dining room, and maybe even a kitchen at times during this heatwave, it’s safe to say we spent a good amount of time in these quarters. My roommate Hannah was engulfed in The Bachelorette at the time and my friend Bailey and I decided, what the hell, let’s watch it, and live-tweet our jokes about it the entire time.
Within one week, myself, Bailey, and my other roommate Greg were calling ourselves “The Right Reasons” line when we played hockey. The show was so bad, it became infectious to us, like a bunch of frat bros quoting Wedding Crashers and Anchorman.
So when it was announced that the new series would begin, I decided I’d live-blog the first episode (read: I lost a bet), especially since it coincided with my new new year’s resolution. My roommate Hannah, obviously, was in, as was her sister Emma who came over for the BIG NIGHT. They came prepped with their picks on who Juan Pablo would choose and should hopefully provide actual commentary that may or may not be publishable.
What you’re about to read is probably awful and weird, but that’s what happens when you decide to sit through this epic adventure of a reality TV show about dating…for the right reasons.
8:01 – Okay, first critical thought: how much more shelf-life does this show have? Isn’t this technically Tinder, but in real life? Like hey, here’s a dude who is looking for love. Awesome. Here are a bunch of women who might be interested in him. Swipe to the left or right to advance.
8:05 – Are we going to see Juan Pablo’s daughter’s mother? Can she screen the women he’s courting? Better yet, can the kid? Is this even consider courting? Does anyone even use that term anymore? Who courts? Are there challenges involved here? What about if this was a hybrid of Road Rules? Is this the best idea ever? A Road Rules/Bachelor hybrid? I have so many questions here.
8:11 – This is so realistic and something that happens all of the time, I’m sure. Just two bros sitting around talking about how they dated 25 women at once and then broke their hearts all in front of a bunch of cameras. Seriously. I think this is Real Life Tinder. “Do you have any strategies as to how many women you’re going to kiss?” said one Bachelor to the other. “Nah bro, I just swipe left,” not said by Juan Pablo but probably at least a real thought that he had just then.
8:15 – “So then we’re like in Thailand, riding on elephants and then the next thing you know, we’re in San Diego, getting sprayed by skunks and washing our dogs who also got sprayed,” said one Bachelor to Juan Pablo, no doubt reciting a line from an Owen Wilson buddy-flick.
8:16 – Do I need to learn these people’s names? No, right? Just Juan Pablo is fine. I’m bad with names. How the hell is he going to remember the names of 25 women? Can he use note cards? Hannah says no. Emma doesn’t look amused by my somewhat serious question.
8:21 – Does host Chris Harrison get to date these women after they get voted off? He has to at least try, right?
8:22 – My roommate Hannah has a list of contestants that she likes. A real list.
8:23 – “Renee’s on my list!” said Hannah, looking at the notes section on her phone with names on it. This is SERIOUS BUSINESS.
8:24 – Single mom alert!
8:26 – There have been four women shown so far and each of them are on Hannah’s list. I’m pretty sure she’s rooting for everyone to win, which is essentially what happened on TLC’s Sister Wives show.
8:27 – The fourth woman rode up to the camera on a bicycle, taking off her helmet and sunglasses and saying “Hi, I’m so and so.” If this isn’t the best introduction to an 80s instructional video on bike safety, then I don’t know what is.
8:29 – Emma says that the women cannot stop pursing their lips. I don’t know what this means so I asked. Apparently it’s a duck-face thing that’s not a duck-face thing. We decided it was a half duck-face but couldn’t think of a better word for it. This is a real Monday night conversation in Somerville, Massachusetts.
8:36 – Chris Harrison is SO PUMPED to see Juan Pablo. I was half expecting a triple low high-five, kind of like this one.
8:38 – Chris Harrison just said to Juan Pablo, “The response for you being the bachelor was SO GREAT that we HAD to allow more contestants on the show, so we’ve added TWO MORE.” TWO. MORE. Such an overwhelming response! TWO MORE, Juan Pablo! Think you can handle that, tough guy?
8:40 – Smart money says that “Former NBA Dancer” doesn’t last longer than the end of the night. I won’t learn her name other than the fact that she doesn’t like conversation and had an awkward pause on network television.
8:41 – I had someone in the second limo being the first woman to give Juan Pablo a gift for his daughter. What were the Vegas odds? Can we do prop bets for The Bachelor? Why hasn’t anyone said that they were in it for the right reasons yet? Still, so many questions.
8:43 – A real conversation that may or may not have happened during pre-production of the tapings with the latest contestant:
Producer: “Lucy, what do you do for work?”
Lucy: “I’m a free spirit.”
Producer: “Oh. Cool if we put that down for your occupation?”
Lucy: “Yes.”
{Enter Lucy “Free Spirit”}
8:46 – If I’m ever on a blind date, and I’m usually not, and a girl wheeled a piano up to me, proceeded to sit down, play a song, screw it up, and then forget to give me her name, I’d have the best story ever to tell all of my friends if I didn’t already Snapchat my reaction to them first. If anyone ever reads this and is put in this situation with me, please don’t bring a piano. Ukeleles are totally acceptable, though.
8:49 – The 1st grade teacher gave Juan Pablo a gold star because he’s been good and because he’s doing the right thing by appearing on The Bachelor. So basically, Juan Pablo is the in for the right reasons. I just asked Hannah why nobody has said they’re in it for the right reasons yet. Apparently that’s so last season. I’m so behind on pop culture.
8:55 – Someone just pretended to be pregnant. Can we just stop the show now? At what point can Juan Pablo just tell someone to get back into the limo? That would have been my guess.
8:57 – Contestant Kelly brought her dog and lists herself or occupation as a “Dog Lover.” If I’m Juan Pablo and I see that dog running towards me, I drop to the ground, start convulsing, and explain I’m deathly allergic to dogs. Then, when she’s mortified, I’d tell her she’s been punk’d and that there never was a dating show to begin with and then have her wave to the cameras and say “hi, mom!” I mean, if you don’t have a sense of humor with these things…
8:59 – Hannah and Emma like the single mom, the Opera singer and the assistant district attorney. Remember that, Internet.
9:04 – Juan Pablo is flat-out giddy right now as he walks into a room of 27 women whose names he probably already forgot. (I did too, totally cool, Juan Pablo.) He then starts drinking and puts on music. If I was Juan Pablo, I’d probably just want to a hockey game or something. “Hey, guys! We’re going to watch a Florida Panthers/Nashville Predators game! Who’s down?!” Whoever sticks around, wins The Bachelor.
9:06 – There’s a photo booth in the mansion. A photo booth. JP is just living it right.
9:07 – Do you think anyone calls him JP? That’d be a lot easier for me. What would his hockey nickname be in the locker room? Juan Pabs. Pabs? Pabs. It’s Pabs, isn’t it?
9:12 – “If I don’t get a rose tonight, I will be absolutely devastated!!!111!!!” said one contestant, probably like that if she was typing her reaction to seeing the rose to her friend on AIM. Hey Pabs–this is when you put on that Panthers/Predators game and see who sticks around. I bet they would have all HATED the 1-3-1 back in the day. That’s okay, everyone–a lot of us thought it was boring, too.
9:17 – “It’s not just a rose, it’s my future.” Do these girls know that IMDB gave The Bachelor series 1 1/2 stars?
9:19 – John Tavares of the New York Islanders has a hat trick and two assists tonight. He should get the first impression rose, Pabs. Do the right thing. Nassau County could use this win.
9:23 – This contestant who was engaged last year is on a reality dating TV show and is visibility upset about Pabs not talking to her. She’s not in it for the right reasons. “Too emotional,” said Hannah, completely overlooking my pun. She wasn’t on either of Hannah’s or Emma’s lists, that’s how you know. I asked how well they predicted the last winner. Hannah smirked. “Pretty well.”
9:28 – “Formerly Engaged” finally got her chance to talk one-on-one with Pabs. Yes. Talk about your insecurites. YES. Talk about your engagement within the first 30 seconds of talking to Pabs. This is always the best way to impress someone. Emma thinks “Formerly Engaged” is getting the rose in a dramatic twist. I think she goes home. I promised myself I wouldn’t make predictions.
9:30 – “OHHH MYYY GODDDD,” – said everyone in my apartment, in unison, when another contestant said she was the missing piece of the puzzle of Pabs and his daughter that she had printed out and made into an actual puzzle that was actually missing a piece.
9:32 – I know nothing about these things, I promise, but the “Opera Singer” and the “Assistant DA” are the final two when all is said and done. It won’t even be close. I wish I was better at names. This is a real life problem because I actually am horrible with names. Have I mentioned that Pabs’ beerability is through the roof right now? Because it is.
9:33 – Oh, duh. Okay so, beerability is how likely you’d be to want to grab a beer or seven with someone and just shoot the shit with them. Essentially, it’s a guys night, bro night, whatever you want to call it. Justin Bourne of Backhand Shelf introduced me to this term and it’s been a part of my vernacular ever since. (Post-blog note: you can read more here)
9:35 – The “Opera Singer” isn’t in it for the right reasons!! What a twist!! This is just like LOST. Who would the “Opera Singer” be? Widmore?! She’s Widmore, isn’t she?
9:36 – “…sure, I will accept this rose,” she said hesitantly after Pabs gave her the first impression rose. Oh my God, she’s Ben Linus!
9:38 – They all hate her. This is fantastic! The “Opera Singer” is Ben. Yes!
9:42 – So Pabs eliminates seven women? This really is just like LOST! It’s like the great purge between The Others and the Dharma Initiative!
9:46 – The dog stays! And so does the NBA dancer? This is why I don’t give predictions ever. Also, the poor red-headed woman will never forget going up to accept a rose thinking Pabs called her name but uh…didn’t. That’s like missing an open net with the game tied. Can we just call her Kaspers Daugauvins going forward? Too soon?
9:46 – Too soon.
9:47 – The “Free Spirit” stays! “She’s a child,” yells Hannah. Spoiler alert: I think they’re the same age.
9:50 – “It’s really nice to meet you [inaudible, mumbles],” the girls say as they say goodbye to Pabs. Wait a minute! That’s Chris Harrison’s music! “Hey, guys! Wanna hang?” Real Life Tinder.
9:52 – That’s it? Eight minutes of highlights on the upcoming season? We’re going to watch Pabs date 20 women at once and see how happy everyone seems. Strangely missing from the highlights? Ben Linus, the “Opera Singer!”
9:56 – Juan Pablo is in over his head, clearly, although his beerability is through the roof. Also, there’s the “Opera Singer” from Ottawa. Now, let’s never live blog The Bachelor again.
9:58 – At least, not until the finale or something. Hannah says, “see you next week.” I hate this.